Too emotionless. They put more effort and interest in sex, food and football.
Intimidated by strong independent women.
Married men giving money regularly to other women without their wives knowing.
Comparing their partner with their relative i.e. mother, aunty, sister or past relationships.
Spends most of their money on their toys rather than the family.
Want women to mother them.
Refusing to seek counselling or help even though the relationship is falling apart.
Egos are sooo big.
Inability to understand, listen and communicate with a female counterpart.
Want to have total control in the relationship.
Married men who find it acceptable to have emotional affairs with other women.
Communicate infrequently but expect great sex without any conversation or interest in their wives.
Too sensitive to certain words and become angry too quickly.
Too abusive physically, sexually and emotionally.
Infatuated with external beauty more than a female’s interior (heart/personality.)
Not always men we can be proud of (like our fathers or men of old).
Play no meaningful role in their children’s lives after the relationship ends.
Quit their relationship too quickly.
Want an easy, laid-back, quiet and passive woman so that they can maintain control.
Too dull and quiet. Women need to hear their desires and hear how they feel and consider it.
Provide no help, support or mentorship to younger men or boys.
Flirting and not being a good example at work.
Expect the woman to be their source of inspiration and leave the woman to deal with issues on her own.
Take no pride in themselves, i.e. clean grooming, dentist, checkups, health clinics, doctors, sexual health, etc.
Scared to be “a man” for the sake of failing, so it is better not to try.
Lack ambition and adventure.
Judgemental and not accepting the partner for who she is and respecting her individuality.
No clear vision or plan of action to follow; just living day to day, pay cheque to pay cheque.
Too submissive to women (mothers, sisters and wives.)
Inability to work as part of a team.
Not appreciating that single women are vulnerable and exercise consideration in their interactions with them.
Men who are in intimate relationships are happy to have ‘secret’ friendships with other women. They do not tell their partners about the friendship, as they do not want to evoke feelings of jealousy. The friendship often leads to sexual innuendo. Is it right for men to have ‘secret’ friendships with another woman?